Best Gay Hotels in Tulum in 2025 - From Luxury to Budget Stays

The Bar at Loba Tulum
Tulum offers a mix of luxurious beachfront resorts, stylish boutique hotels, and social LGBTQ+ stays, catering to every travel style and budget. Whether you're looking for romantic beachfront bliss, a jungle hideaway, or a gay men-only retreat, we’ve rounded up the best hotels in Tulum to help you find the perfect stay.

Private plunge pool at The Beach Tulum
Private plunge pool at The Beach Tulum

The Beach Tulum – Best for Luxury & Romance


Best for: Romantic getaways, beachfront luxury, and honeymooners

📍 Location: Beachfront, Hotel Zone

🌈 Why We Love It:

  • Adults-only beachfront resort with private plunge pools
  • Beachfront suites with dedicated loungers and lagoon pools
  • Romantic vibes – We even got married here!
  • Top-rated service, spa, and on-site dining

Welcome Drinks
Welcome Drinks

If you’re looking for the ultimate luxury escape, The Beach Tulum is hands down our favorite resort in Tulum. Every detail is five-star, from the private beach loungers to the outdoor showers and jacuzzi tubs for two in each suite. The sunsets here are magical, and the vibe is laid-back luxury at its finest.
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Bardo – Best for Jungle Luxury & Design Lovers


Best for: Jungle luxury, design lovers, and peaceful retreats

📍 Location: Tulum Pueblo

🌈 Why We Love It:

  • Stunning jungle retreat with lush tropical landscaping
  • One of the most beautiful pools in Tulum
  • Spa villa for couples massage
  • Restaurant Milum – best hotel breakfast in town

Private Pool Villa
Private Pool Villa

Bardo is the ultimate jungle oasis, offering a tranquil escape with sleek, modern design. The lush greenery, stunning central pool, and fantastic spa experience make this a dreamy spot for relaxation. The vibe is sexy and sophisticated, and the on-site restaurant Milum is one of our absolute favorites for breakfast.
🌟 Pro tip – Planning a trip to Tulum? From the best gay bars and clubs to must-visit attractions, dining, and travel tips, find it all in our Gay Travel Guide to Tulum.

Una Vida Outside Claw Tub
Una Vida Outside Claw Tub

Una Vida – Best for Budget-Friendly Jungle Luxury


Best for: Budget-friendly jungle stays with a luxury feel

📍 Location: Tulum Pueblo

🌈 Why We Love It:

  • Sister property to Bardo with shared access
  • Affordable jungle suites with a luxury feel
  • Peaceful, boutique atmosphere

If you love the jungle vibes of Bardo but want a more budget-friendly option, Una Vida is a fantastic choice. You still get access to Bardo’s incredible pool and spa, but with cozy, stylish suites at a lower price—some even have private plunge pools!

Loba Tulum – Best for Gay Men & Social Travelers


Best for: Gay men, social travelers, and clothing-optional fun

📍 Location: Aldea Zama (between town & the beach)

🌈 Why We Love It:

  • Gay men-only boutique hotel with a clothing-optional rooftop
  • Social events like massage circles & naked dinners
  • Two plunge pools with a sexy jungle vibe
  • Super friendly hotel manager Gustavo!

Rooms at Night
Rooms at Night

For a sexy, social stay, Loba Tulum is a top choice for gay travelers. With eight stylish rooms, a clothing-optional rooftop, and a welcoming, inclusive vibe, it’s a fantastic place to meet like-minded travelers. We love staying here when our house is rented!

🌟 Pro tip – Book directly using code TWOGAYEXPATS at lobatulum.com/reservations for a free continental breakfast or two free cocktails per night.

Casa Cangrejo – Best for Airbnb Luxury & Privacy


Best for: Private Airbnb luxury, long-term stays, and romantic escapes

📍 Location: Tulum Pueblo (next to Bardo)

🌈 Why We Love It:

  • Private 2-bedroom villa with a saltwater pool
  • Resort-style amenities in a lush jungle setting
  • Outdoor shower & double rain shower for extra romance
  • Luxury concierge service for beach clubs, private chefs & more!

Two Gay Expats - Tulum, Quintana Roo, Mexico - Casa Cangrejo Airbnb - Pool Day
Private Saltwater Pool

Wake up in paradise at Casa Cangrejo—our own modern luxury villa in Tulum! This Airbnb-exclusive stay offers a private pool, lush landscaping, and resort-style luxury with complete privacy. Feel free to sunbathe and swim naked, enjoy a romantic double shower, and soak in the laid-back jungle vibes.
Paradise Beach Tulum
Paradise Beach Tulum

Final Thoughts


Whether you're looking for a beachfront resort, a chic downtown stay, or a boutique gay hotel, Tulum has amazing LGBTQ+ accommodation options for every budget and travel style.

🌟 Pro tip – Need transportation between Cancun Airport (airport code: CUN) and your hotel? Pre-book a private transfer with Cancun Airport Transportation and an English-speaking driver will meet you at the airport with a sign, provide bottled water, and take you directly to your hotel in an air-conditioned vehicle. This is our go-to method, especially when traveling with our rescue pup.

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