Gay Palm Springs – Best Gay Hotels, Bars & Clubs, Events and More in 2024!

Written by Traivor Morrison
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Palm Springs is undoubtedly one of the best gay travel destinations in the U.S. Once a Hollywood retreat for stars like Marilyn Monroe and Liberace, this stylish escape continues to dazzle visitors with its unique charm.

Overview


Nestled in the Coachella Valley, Palm Springs is known for its stunning desert landscapes, iconic mid-century modern architecture, and a welcoming LGBTQ+ community. The city is home to a variety of gay-owned businesses, world-class events like Pride, White Party, and Modernism Week, and a nightlife scene that rivals those of larger cities.

Whether you’re here to unwind by the pool, enjoy fine dining, or hit up the hottest bars and clubs, our insider guide will help you plan the perfect Palm Springs getaway.

Santiago Resort
Santiago Resort

Where to Stay


From chic modern design hotels to legendary mid-century modern gay resorts, Palm Springs has no shortage of stylish and inclusive places to stay.

Desert Vibes at Santiago Resort
Desert Vibes at Santiago Resort

Santiago Resort – If you’re looking for laid-back luxury, Santiago Resort is your own private oasis. This clothing-optional, gay men’s resort feels like a secret garden in the middle of the desert. It’s perfect if you want to unwind with its large heated pool, cozy hot tub, and plenty of secluded spots to catch some sun. And did we mention the included breakfast and poolside lunch service? Ideal for those lazy days when you don’t want to leave the resort.
INNdulge
INNdulge

INNdulge – A true Palm Springs classic in the famed Warm Sands District, INNdulge offers mid-century modern charm with a social atmosphere. Known for its nightly happy hours and themed events, this clothing-optional resort is ideal for meeting fellow travelers.

Pool Area at INNdulge
Pool Area at INNdulge

Offering a surprising 31-rooms, the property is much larger than it appears from the outside. With a 12-man jacuzzi and heated/chilled saltwater pool, INNdulge creates the perfect balance of relaxation and fun, complemented by shaded cabanas and stunning artwork that adds a unique charm to the property.

Guests enjoy a range of thoughtful amenities, including complimentary parking, WiFi, a daily continental breakfast, access to The Fitness Edge gym, and convenient on-site laundry facilities. It’s no wonder so many visitors choose to stay for a week or more!
Lola Rose Pool Bar
Thompson Palm Springs

Thompson Palm Springs – With its unbeatable downtown location, Instagram-worthy design, and buzzing Pool Club, Thompson Palm Springs is the ultimate desert escape.
🌟 Pro tip –  for our complete hotel review, click here for the blog post or watch our YouTube video linked above.

Courtyard King Bed Room
Courtyard King Bed Room

Rooms blend mid-century modern design with luxurious touches, featuring private balconies or courtyards, plush robes and slippers, and oversized walk-in showers with high-end bath products. Resort amenities include a stunning pool area with cabanas, a rooftop bar, and top-notch dining options, making it the perfect desert getaway.
Marilyn Monroe Statue
Marilyn Monroe Statue

Things to Do


While lounging by the hotel pool all day is tempting, we recommend venturing out to explore the city and its surroundings, especially in the cooler morning hours.

Palm Springs Aerial Tramway – If it’s your first trip to Palm Springs, the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway is an absolute must. This rotating tram takes you from the desert floor up to the cooler, pine-scented wilderness of Mount San Jacinto State Park. At over 8,500 feet, you’ll be treated to jaw-dropping views of the Coachella Valley and beyond. At the top, you can enjoy hiking trails, a cocktail with a view, or even a bit of snow in the winter months!
Liberace's House
Liberace's House

Mid-Century Modern Homes and Architecture– Palm Springs is synonymous with mid-century modern design, and a visit wouldn’t be complete without exploring its iconic architecture. The Old Las Palmas neighborhood is a treasure trove of stunning homes that once housed Hollywood royalty. Be sure to check out Liberace’s former residence, a glitzy reflection of the entertainer's larger-than-life personality. Another must-see is the Elvis Honeymoon House, where the King of Rock ‘n’ Roll spent his early married days. Whether you’re a design enthusiast or just love a good photo op, these architectural gems are sure to impress.

Popular Hiking Trails – For nature enthusiasts, Palm Springs offers some of the most picturesque hiking trails in Southern California. The Tahquitz Canyon Trail is perfect for a shorter, scenic hike that leads to a beautiful seasonal waterfall. If you’re looking for something more challenging, Indian Canyons offers several trails surrounded by lush palm oases. And for a truly unforgettable desert experience, venture out to Joshua Tree National Park, just a 45-minute drive away. If you don't have your own wheels, opt for a thrilling 4x4 off-road adventure into the rugged backcountry, where you’ll discover breathtaking views of the Mojave Desert, sacred Joshua trees, dramatic rock formations, and hidden gems—perfect for making the most of your time in this extraordinary national park.
Dinner at Bar Cecil
Dinner at Bar Cecil

Where to Eat and Drink


From exceptional fine dining to casual brunch spots and coffee with stunning views, Palm Springs’ culinary scene is as diverse and welcoming as its nightlife.

Beautifully Crafted Dishes at Bar Cecil
Delicious Meal at Bar Cecil

Bar Cecil – Step into a stylish, speakeasy-inspired atmosphere at Bar Cecil, where artistry meets flavor. With an ever-changing menu of inventive dishes and beautifully crafted cocktails, this upscale spot is perfect for a memorable dinner. Reservations are a must, but bar seating is first-come, first-served for spontaneous diners.

Outdoor Dining at Tropicale
Outdoor Dining at Tropicale

Tropicale – A Palm Springs staple and a hotspot for the gay community, Tropicale dazzles with its retro-glam vibe and lively patio atmosphere. The menu offers an eclectic mix of globally inspired dishes, and their signature cocktails are as fabulous as the crowd. It's a must-visit for great food and an unforgettable experience.

Brunch at Farm
Brunch at Farm

Farm – Tucked away in a quaint courtyard, Farm delivers a slice of Provence in the desert. This French-inspired café serves up decadent crepes, savory breakfast sandwiches, and perfectly brewed French press coffee—an idyllic brunch spot to recharge before exploring the city.

Tyler's Burgers – For a more laid-back bite, head to Tyler’s Burgers, a local favorite for classic American fare and friendly service. Known for their juicy burgers and famous potato salad, this casual eatery serves comfort food at its best. The sunny outdoor seating makes it a great spot to soak up Palm Springs’ relaxed vibe.

Koffi Coffee
Afternoon Pick-Me-Up at Koffi

Koffi – Follow the locals to Koffi, where the rich aroma of freshly brewed coffee is matched only by the stunning views of the San Jacinto Mountains. The lush courtyard seating and vibrant local energy make this coffee shop a great pit stop between adventures.

Palm Springs Drag Queen Royalty
Palm Springs Drag Queen Royalty

Best Gay Bars & Clubs


Palm Springs’ legendary gay nightlife is centered on Arenas Road, which is packed with lively gay bars and clubs, each offering a unique vibe.

Chill Bar
Chill Bar

Chill Bar – True to its name, Chill Bar is the perfect spot to relax with a drink and soak in the scene. The spacious patio is ideal for people-watching by day, while the dance floor lights up after dark with energetic beats and a welcoming crowd.

Dicks on Arenas
Dicks on Arenas

Dick's on Arenas – Known for its no-frills vibe and friendly atmosphere, Dick’s serves up strong drinks and a steady lineup of events throughout the week. Whether you’re a local or just visiting, it’s a fun spot to mingle and let loose.

Hunters
Hunters

Hunters – A true Palm Springs institution, Hunters is one of the biggest and busiest clubs on Arenas Road, with an energetic dance floor that’s always packed. Don’t miss their drag shows and famous themed nights.

Blackbook Bar
Blackbook

Blackbook – If craft cocktails and a laid-back vibe are more your style, Blackbook delivers. Located on Arenas Road, right across from Hunters, this bar offers a sophisticated drink menu and a relaxed patio perfect for catching up with friends or starting your night off right. Plus, they’ve got some seriously sexy dancers, but you’ll have to head to our Patreon for the exclusive footage!

Toucans Tiki Lounge
Toucans Tiki Lounge

Toucans Tiki Lounge – For a unique twist, head to Toucans in North Palm Springs. This tiki-themed gay bar is known for its entertaining drag performances and lively events. The playful atmosphere and creative drinks ensure a memorable night full of laughs and surprises.

Tool Shed
Tool Shed

Tool Shed – Located in the Warm Sands District, Tool Shed is a rugged leather bar with a laid-back and welcoming atmosphere that draws a loyal local crowd. Its expansive outdoor covered patio is especially popular, making it the perfect spot to unwind, particularly on Sundays. If you’re staying at one of the nearby clothing-optional resorts in South Palm Springs, this gay bar is a must-visit!

Lounging Poolside at Thompson Palm Springs
Lounging Poolside at Thompson Palm Springs

When to Go


Timing your visit can really make or break your experience in Palm Springs. We recommend the shoulder seasons, which are fall (October to early December) and spring (February to April). You’ll enjoy warm, sunny days without the intense summer heat.

In terms of LGBTQ+ events, Palm Springs is home to some of the best in the country. Whether you're looking to celebrate Pride, immerse yourself in mid-century modern architecture, or dance the night away at an epic party, Palm Springs has something for everyone. Here are three of the most popular LGBTQ+ events you won’t want to miss:

Palm Springs Pride Parade
Palm Springs Pride Parade

Palm Springs Pride – One of the biggest events in the city, attracting thousands of visitors from around the world each November. The highlight is the Pride Parade, which winds through downtown, featuring eye-catching floats, incredible costumes, and a palpable energy that embodies the spirit of inclusivity and celebration. Be sure to check out the Pride Festival, which brings together live entertainment, local vendors, and a sense of community like no other.

White Party – If you're looking for a weekend of non-stop fun, the White Party is where you need to be. Held every spring, this massive event is one of the largest LGBTQ+ parties in the world. With world-class DJs, high-energy dance floors, and a series of extravagant parties at some of Palm Springs' best venues, it’s a celebration of life, music, and community. The iconic all-white dress code adds to the glamour of the weekend, making it the perfect opportunity to don your best outfit and party under the desert stars.

Iconic Mid-Century Modern Home
Iconic Mid-Century Modern Home

Modernism Week – For a more relaxed, yet equally fabulous experience, Modernism Week is a must. This event takes place each February and celebrates Palm Springs' rich mid-century modern architecture. It's not only for architecture buffs—LGBTQ visitors flock to the event for its stylish parties, intimate home tours, and chic cocktail events. Modernism Week offers a unique glimpse into Palm Springs’ history and the design culture that shaped the city, all while offering a laid-back vibe and plenty of opportunities to mix and mingle with other like-minded travelers.

Palm Springs International Airport
Palm Springs International Airport

How to Get Here


The most convenient option is to fly directly into Palm Springs International Airport (airport code: PSP). It’s a small, efficient airport located just a few minutes from downtown. And yes, the open-air design gives you a preview of that gorgeous Palm Springs weather as soon as you land.

If you’re coming from Los Angeles, Palm Springs is about a 2-hour drive east on Interstate 10, making it an easy road trip.

Palm Springs Pride Festival
Palm Springs Pride Festival

Frequently Asked Questions & Travel Tips


What's the best time of year to visit Palm Springs?

The best time to visit is during the shoulder seasons, which are fall (October to early December) and spring (February to April). During these seasons, the weather is warm but not scorching, perfect for outdoor activities, hiking, and lounging by the pool.

Do I need a car to get around?

While Palm Springs does have a small, walkable downtown area, a car is highly recommended to fully explore the city and surrounding areas. With many attractions and resorts spread out, having your own transportation will make it easier to get to popular spots like Joshua Tree National Park, the Palm Springs Aerial Tramway, and various hiking trails. There are also ride-share services like Uber and Lyft, which can be convenient for shorter trips and to enjoy the nightlife.

Is Palm Springs LGBTQ+ friendly?

Absolutely! Palm Springs is one of the most LGBTQ-friendly destinations in the U.S. The city has a long history of being a welcoming haven for the LGBTQ+ community. From gay and gay-friendly resorts and bars to events like Palm Springs Pride and White Party, you’ll find a vibrant and inclusive atmosphere everywhere you go.

Andy and Trai Enjoying the Hot Tub at Sunset
Relaxing in Warm Sands District

Are there clothing-optional resorts in Palm Springs?


Yes, Palm Springs is known for its clothing-optional resorts, which cater to those looking to relax and unwind in the nude. There are several popular clothing-optional gay resorts, such as Santiago Resort and INNdulge, where you can enjoy the freedom of sunbathing and swimming in the buff. Most are located in the famed Warm Sands District.

What should I wear in Palm Springs?


Palm Springs is a laid-back desert destination with a casual and stylish vibe. During the day, think light, breathable fabrics like cotton, linen, or lightweight cotton blends to keep cool in the desert heat. Don’t forget sunscreen and sunglasses! At night, many of the upscale restaurants and bars in Palm Springs have a smart-casual dress code, so you may want to bring a nice outfit for dining or cocktails. As for the pool, swimwear is a must, and for clothing-optional resorts, pack just the essentials—your birthday suit!

Andy Ready to explore the town!
Desert Chic at Thompson Palm Springs

Ready for Your Palm Springs Getaway?


With its year-round sunshine, luxurious resorts, and welcoming gay nightlife, Palm Springs is the perfect escape for those craving a little desert glamour.

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