Cape Town is one of those rare destinations that truly has it all: dramatic natural beauty, world-class food and wine, diverse LGBTQ+ nightlife, and a progressive, welcoming culture that makes queer travelers feel genuinely at home. Add in iconic beaches, unforgettable sunsets, and easy access to safari adventures, and it’s no wonder Cape Town consistently ranks as one of the best gay travel destinations in the world.
Whether this is your first trip to Africa or a long-overdue return, Cape Town delivers an experience that’s bold, emotional, and unforgettable.
Why Visit Gay Cape Town?
South Africa was the first country in Africa to legalize same-sex marriage and remains one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly nations globally. At the heart of that openness is Cape Town — creative, cosmopolitan, and proudly queer.
The city’s gay scene is concentrated in De Waterkant, affectionately known as the gayborhood, where rainbow crosswalks, outdoor cafés, cocktail bars, and nightclubs create an easy, social nightlife experience. Beyond nightlife, Cape Town shines with its beaches, wine regions, hikes, cultural history, and incredible value for luxury.
Cape Town isn’t just a place you visit — it’s a place that sticks with you.
South Africa gives me a perspective of what’s real and what’s not real. So I go back to South Africa to both lose myself and gain awareness of myself.”
Dave Matthews, South African born musician and gay rights supporter
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Where to Stay
Cape Town’s hotel scene ranges from chic design-forward boutiques to legendary grand dames that feel like pure old-world glamour. Whether you want to be close to the gayborhood in De Waterkant, lounge by a rooftop pool with a cocktail, or splurge on a once-in-a-lifetime stay, these are our top picks.
Belmond Mount Nelson – Best Iconic Luxury Stay
⭐ Best for: Old-world glamour & special occasions 📍 Location: Gardens neighborhood
Why We Love It:
Cape Town’s most legendary luxury hotel (the iconic “Pink Lady”)
Stunning grounds, polished service, and timeless elegance
Famous afternoon tea experience (even if you’re not staying overnight)
Perfect base for sightseeing with quick Uber access to De Waterkant nightlife
Known as the “Pink Lady,” the Belmond Mount Nelson is pure Cape Town legend. It’s the kind of hotel that makes you slow down in the best way — cocktails on the terrace, wandering the gardens, and feeling like you’ve stepped into a more glamorous era.
Even if it’s a splurge, it’s worth it for a special trip. And if it’s not in the budget, don’t worry — you can still get the magic by booking their iconic afternoon tea.
Gorgeous George – Best Design-Forward Boutique Hotel
⭐ Best for: Design lovers, rooftop vibes & modern luxury 📍 Location: Cape Town City Center
Why We Love It:
One of the coolest design hotels in the city (bold, stylish, and photo-ready)
Rooftop pool and bar scene that feels very Cape Town chic
Great location for exploring the City Center + easy Uber to De Waterkant
Ideal if you want a more boutique + trendy stay than traditional luxury
Gorgeous George is a newer standout that nails the modern Cape Town aesthetic — artsy, elevated, and a little bit sexy. The rooftop is a whole vibe, especially at golden hour, and the City Center location makes it easy to mix daytime exploring with nights out in De Waterkant.
If you like your hotels to feel like part of the destination (not just a place to sleep), this is your spot.
The Grey The Grey Hotel – Best Budget Boutique Location
⭐ Best for: Walkable nightlife & rooftop pool views 📍 Location: De Waterkant (gayborhood)
Why We Love It:
Prime De Waterkant location (you can walk to gay bars and restaurants)
Rooftop pool with city views — perfect after a beach day or hike
Stylish boutique feel at a more approachable price point
Where Trai stayed on his first trip to Cape Town
The Grey Hotel is one of the best-value stays in De Waterkant — and the location honestly does most of the heavy lifting (in the best way). Rooms are compact but thoughtfully designed, and the rooftop pool is exactly what you want when Cape Town delivers one of those sunny, sparkling days.
If your priority is being able to wander out for cocktails, dinner, or a night out without planning logistics, The Grey is an easy yes — just book early because it’s popular.
The best way to experience the Mother City is to combine relaxed wandering with a handful of unforgettable excursions that showcase just how diverse and dramatic this part of the world really is. From rooftop sunsets and gay beach days to mountain hikes and wine country escapes, here’s how to build the perfect Cape Town itinerary.
Hit the Beach – Gay & Gay-Friendly Classics
Cape Town boasts not one, but two legendary gay beaches—each offering a very different experience.
Clifton 3rd Beach is the main gay-friendly beach in town. It’s textile-friendly, easy to reach by Uber, and great if you want loungers, snacks, massages, and crystal-clear water with city views.
For something more adventurous, Sandy Bay is one of the best gay nude beaches in the world. Tucked away beyond the city, it feels wild, remote, and incredibly freeing. Just be prepared for a short hike down—and an uphill climb back out.
🌟 Pro tip – We share behind-the-scenes photos and videos as well as the spicier details from Sandy Bay (and all our nudist travels) over on Patreon.
Bo-Kaap – A Colorful Cultural Walk
One of Cape Town’s most photographed neighborhoods, Bo-Kaap is known for its brightly painted houses, cobblestone streets, and rich Cape Malay history.
It’s best explored slowly during the day, camera in hand. Wander the streets, learn about the neighborhood’s cultural roots, and enjoy the contrast between the historic homes and the modern city skyline rising behind them.
Lion's Head Summit, Table Mountain National Park Lion’s Head Hike (Sunrise or Sunset Must-Do)
If you only do one hike in Cape Town, make it Lion’s Head. The panoramic views from the summit—over the city, ocean, and Table Mountain—are simply unforgettable.
You can hike independently, but many travelers prefer a guided sunrise or sunset hike, especially for first-timers. The guides handle timing, safety, and navigation through the ladders and chains near the top, making the experience smoother and more fun.
A visit to Robben Island is one of the most powerful experiences in South Africa. After learning about apartheid and the country’s complex past, you’ll take a ferry to the island where Nelson Mandela was imprisoned for 18 years.
Guided tours offer moving, firsthand insight that you simply can’t get from a textbook. Booking with transportation included makes the day effortless.
Afternoon Tea at the Mount Nelson – Iconic Cape Town Ritual
Even if you don’t stay there, afternoon tea at the legendary Mount Nelson (the famous “Pink Lady”) is a Cape Town rite of passage.
Think manicured gardens, impeccable service, and a refined but relaxed atmosphere that feels timeless. Reservations are essential and should be made well in advance—especially during high season.
Babylonstoren Wine Estate Wine Tasting in Stellenbosch & Franschhoek – World-Class and Affordable
Cape Town’s wine country is only about an hour away, and it’s absolutely worth the trip. The Stellenbosch and Franschhoek regions are home to some of the most beautiful wine estates we’ve ever visited.
You can explore independently using Uber (like we did), or opt for a private wine tour with transportation so you don’t have to think about logistics—and can fully enjoy the tastings.
For first-time visitors, a full Cape Peninsula tour is an easy win. In one stunning day, you’ll hit Table Mountain, the penguin colony at Boulders Beach, Chapman’s Peak Drive, and the Cape of Good Hope.
A private tour with a driver removes all the stress and lets you focus on the scenery—which is spectacular at every turn.
Cape Town delivers exceptional value when it comes to food and drink — even at high-end, scenic spots where you’d expect sky-high prices elsewhere in the world. From relaxed neighborhood cafés in the gayborhood to chic oceanfront restaurants, the city’s dining scene is both approachable and impressive.
These are our personal favorites, all easy to pair with sightseeing, beach time, and gay nightlife.
Ground Art Caffe – Our Go-To Breakfast Spot
⭐ Best for: Coffee, breakfast & açai bowls 📍 Location: De Waterkant (gayborhood)
Ground Art Caffe is the kind of place you’ll find yourself coming back to more than once — especially if you’re staying in De Waterkant. It’s a relaxed, neighborhood favorite serving excellent coffee, fresh pastries, and nourishing breakfasts that hit the spot without feeling heavy.
We love starting our day here with a strong americano and one of their colorful açai bowls before heading out to explore the city. It’s casual, friendly, and perfectly placed for an easy morning routine before beach time or sightseeing.
The Bungalow – Chic Oceanfront Dining Near the Gay Beach
⭐ Best for: Lunch with ocean views 📍 Location: Clifton (steps from Clifton 3rd Beach)
If you want a classic Cape Town “wow” moment, The Bungalow delivers. This stylish oceanfront restaurant sits right above the water near Clifton 3rd — the city’s most popular gay beach — making it an ideal stop before or after a day in the sun.
The atmosphere is buzzy yet refined, with crisp white linens, chill house music, and sweeping ocean views. It’s the perfect place to order cocktails or a bottle of bubbles and settle in for seafood, small plates, and unbeatable sunsets. For the setting alone, this one’s a must.
Il Leone Mastrantonio – Gay-Friendly Italian Favorite for Date Night
⭐ Best for: Date night & comforting Italian classics 📍 Location: De Waterkant
Il Leone Mastrantonio is a longtime favorite among locals and travelers alike — and one of the best dinner spots in De Waterkant. The vibe is effortlessly romantic without being pretentious, making it ideal for a relaxed but memorable night out.
We usually start with a glass (or two) of Chianti before splitting pasta dishes like the Penne Arrabbiata alongside a fresh Caesar salad. The service is warm, the crowd is a mix of gay and straight couples, and the tiramisu is absolutely worth saving room for. It’s the kind of place that turns a simple dinner into a perfect Cape Town evening.
Manhattan Gay Bar
Best Gay Bars & Clubs
Cape Town’s gay nightlife is compact, social, and refreshingly easy to navigate. Most venues are concentrated in De Waterkant, where you can bar-hop on foot by simply following the iconic pink strip running through the neighborhood.
The scene skews friendly and international, with everything from relaxed cocktail bars and social hangouts to high-energy dance floors and cruisier late-night spots. Whether you’re easing into the night or looking to turn things up, here’s how we recommend doing gay Cape Town right.
Manhattan – Best Place to Start the Night
⭐ Best for: Social vibes, cocktails & meeting people 📍 Location: De Waterkant (gayborhood)
Manhattan has been a cornerstone of Cape Town’s gay scene since the 1990s — and for good reason. It’s equal parts café, bar, and community living room, with locals and travelers spilling out onto the patios from early evening onward.
Cocktails are well-priced, the crowd is mixed and friendly, and it’s incredibly easy to strike up conversations here. Whether you’re starting solo or with friends, this is the perfect first stop to ease into the night and get a feel for the local scene.
Zer021 Social Club – Best for Drag Shows & Community Vibes
⭐ Best for: Drag performances, cocktails & a diverse LGBTQ+ crowd 📍 Location: District Six
Zer021 Social Club is one of the most inclusive LGBTQ+ venues in Cape Town, representing the city’s beautifully diverse queer community. Set in a stylish, rooftop-style restaurant and bar space, it’s as much about atmosphere and connection as it is about nightlife.
This is the place to come for fantastic drag shows, lip-sync battles, and performance-driven nights that pull the whole bar together. Cocktail hour is especially popular thanks to very affordable drinks, and the energy ramps up as the shows begin.
Pink Candy Pink Candy Nightclub – Best All-Around Gay Dance Club
⭐ Best for: Big dance floor energy & international crowds 📍 Location: De Waterkant
Pink Candy is hands down the most iconic gay club in Cape Town. Loud, colorful, unapologetically fun — this is where the party really kicks off. Expect packed dance floors, sexy bartenders, and a crowd that feels like a global Pride after-party.
It’s an easy place to come solo or in a group, and you’ll meet people from all over the world by the end of the night. If you want a classic, high-energy gay club experience in Cape Town, this is it.
Shaft Cruise Zone – Spiciest Option for Your Night
⭐ Best for: Cruisy vibes for the adventurous 📍 Location: Observatory Cape Town (short Uber from De Waterkant)
For travelers looking to explore the spicier side of Cape Town’s gay scene, Shaft Cruise Zone delivers. This men-only venue is busiest late and attracts a confident, adventurous crowd.
Clifton 3rd Gay Beach
When to Go
Cape Town enjoys far more good weather than many travelers expect, with long stretches of sunshine and extended beach-friendly conditions throughout much of the year. Mild temperatures, ocean breezes, and generally dry days make outdoor activities easy to plan. That said, winter months can bring cooler temperatures and rainfall, which may limit beach time and certain outdoor experiences.
Summer (December–March): Peak Season & Maximum Energy This is the most popular time to visit Cape Town — and for good reason. Long, sunny days, warm temperatures, and low rainfall make it ideal for beaches, hikes, wine tasting, and nightlife. The city buzzes with tourists, locals on holiday, and a packed LGBTQ+ events calendar. Prices are highest, especially around Christmas, New Year’s, and major gay events, so booking accommodation well in advance is essential.
Fall (April–May): The Sweet Spot Fall is one of our favorite times to visit Cape Town. The weather remains warm and dry, but crowds thin out noticeably after summer peak. Beaches are still great, sunsets are spectacular, and restaurants and bars feel more relaxed. It’s perfect if you want great weather without the high-season intensity — and often with better hotel availability.
Winter (June–August): Cozy, Cultural & Great Value Winter in Cape Town is cooler and can be rainy, but it brings a quieter, more local feel to the city. This is a fantastic time for food, wine, museums, and cultural experiences — and hotel prices drop significantly. While beach days are limited, Cape Town still offers plenty to do, and nightlife continues year-round.
Spring (September–November): Blooms, Beauty & Balance Spring marks the return of warmer days, blooming landscapes, and a gradual buildup toward summer. It’s an excellent shoulder season with fewer tourists, improving weather, and a relaxed pace. Outdoor activities, hiking, and wine country visits shine during this time, making it ideal for travelers who want balance over buzz.
Pink Candy Key LGBTQ+ Events in Cape Town
Cape Town’s LGBTQ+ scene is vibrant, visible, and deeply woven into the city’s identity. Rather than nonstop parties year-round, the city shines brightest during a few major moments — when the community comes together in unforgettable ways.
Event dates can change year to year, so always double-check official event pages and venue socials before locking in travel.
Cape Town Pride (February-March): Cape Town Pride typically takes place in late summer and includes parades, parties, drag events, and community gatherings throughout the city.
Mother City Queer Project (December): MCQP is the crown jewel of Cape Town’s LGBTQ+ calendar and one of the largest queer events on the African continent. Held in December during peak summer, this massive themed party attracts thousands of locals and international visitors.
Cape Town International Airport
Getting Here & Around
By Air: Most international travelers arrive in South Africa via Johannesburg O.R. Tambo International Airport (airport code: JNB) or directly into Cape Town International Airport (airport code: CPT).
Via Johannesburg: Many international routes land first in JNB. From there, frequent domestic flights connect to Cape Town in about two hours. This route works especially well if you’re adding a safari extension to Kruger National Park.
Flying into CPT: The easiest option if Cape Town is your primary destination. The airport is modern, easy to navigate, and well-connected to the city.
Getting Around: Uber and Bolt are reliable, affordable, and widely used — especially for getting between neighborhoods, beaches, and nightlife.
Within De Waterkant, walking is easy and encouraged — especially for bar hopping along the iconic pink strip.
🌟 Pro tip – Always carry travel insurance. We recommend SafetyWing to cover everything from lost luggage to unexpected medical expenses abroad.
Adding a Safari to Your Cape Town Trip
If this is your first time in South Africa, adding a safari is absolutely worth it.
From Cape Town, it’s easy to fly to Kruger National Park via Johannesburg.
We highly recommend Kruger Shalati — a luxury train-on-a-bridge safari lodge with:
All-inclusive meals & drinks
Twice-daily game drives
Easy direct flights from Cape Town to Skukuza Airport (airport code: SZK)
One of the most unique hotel stays we’ve ever experienced.
Yes. Cape Town is widely regarded as the most LGBTQ+ friendly city in Africa and one of the most welcoming destinations globally. South Africa was the fifth country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage, and Cape Town has a long, visible queer community, gay-owned businesses, and inclusive nightlife. While attitudes can vary outside major cities, Cape Town itself feels open, progressive, and safe for LGBTQ+ travelers.
Is there a gay neighborhood in Cape Town?
Yes. De Waterkant is Cape Town’s primary gayborhood. This compact, stylish neighborhood is home to many of the city’s gay bars, cafés, hotels, and nightlife venues — all marked by the iconic pink sidewalk stripe. It’s walkable, lively, and the easiest base for first-time visitors wanting to be close to the LGBTQ+ scene.
Where is the gay beach in Cape Town?
Cape Town has two well-known gay-friendly beaches:
Clifton 3rd Beach – The city’s main gay beach. It’s textile-friendly, easy to access, and popular for sunsets, social vibes, and people-watching. Loungers, umbrellas, and drinks are available nearby.
Sandy Bay – Cape Town’s famous gay nude beach. More remote and clothing-optional, it attracts a younger, adventurous crowd. Reaching the beach requires a hike, but the setting is stunning and worth the effort if you’re up for it.
When is the best time to visit?
Cape Town offers long stretches of pleasant, outdoor-friendly weather, making it suitable for visits most of the year. Travelers seeking consistent sunshine, beach days, and hiking conditions should aim for warmer, drier periods, while winter months tend to be cooler and rainier. If beaches, wine country, and outdoor sightseeing are priorities, planning around milder, sunnier conditions will deliver the best experience.
How do I get around the city?
Uber is the easiest and most reliable way to get around Cape Town, especially for visitors. It’s affordable, widely used, and ideal for traveling between neighborhoods, beaches, and nightlife. Walking works well within areas like De Waterkant.
Can you drink the tap water in Cape Town?
Yes. Cape Town’s tap water is safe to drink and meets international safety standards. Many visitors drink it without issue, though bottled water is widely available if you prefer. Restaurants commonly serve filtered or bottled water, but tap water is perfectly fine for brushing teeth and staying hydrated.
Is Cape Town safe for LGBTQ+ travelers?
Yes, with standard travel awareness. Cape Town is generally safe for LGBTQ+ travelers, particularly in well-visited neighborhoods like De Waterkant and coastal areas. As in any large city, avoid isolated areas at night, don’t flash valuables, and use ride-sharing instead of walking long distances after dark. LGBTQ+ travelers are visible and well-represented in nightlife and hospitality spaces.
Delaire Graff Wine Estate
Final Thoughts
Cape Town is one of the most complete gay travel destinations on the planet. Few places combine nature, nightlife, culture, wine, beaches, and safari access this seamlessly — and with such warmth.
Whether you come for a week or stay a month, Cape Town has a way of pulling you back. Trust us — this won’t be your last visit.
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