Gay Amsterdam

Gay Amsterdam – Your Complete LGBTQ+ Travel Guide in 2024

Discover the best of gay Amsterdam, including top hotels, things to do, restaurants, & LGBTQ+ nightlife in what many consider the gay capital of Europe!

Overview – Amsterdam has a long history of LGBTQ+ acceptance and has been at the forefront of gay rights for decades. As the capital of the first country to legalize same-sex marriage back in 2001, Amsterdam is known for its inclusive and welcoming atmosphere.

Homomonument
Homomonument

Don’t miss the Homomonument, an iconic landmark dedicated to the memory of gays and lesbians persecuted throughout history. It’s a testament to the city’s commitment to equality and diversity and the largest of its kind in the world.

Beside the Homomonument, be sure to make a stop at Pink Point, Amsterdam’s official LGBTQ+ information kiosk where you can speak with volunteers, shop pride related merch, and pick up free gay maps.

Andaz Hotel Amsterdam
Andaz Hotel Amsterdam

Where to stay - Amsterdam boasts a wide range of gay-friendly hotels, catering to diverse budgets and styles. If you want to be centrally located and near the gay nightlife, we recommend choosing one of the gorgeous hotels along the prestigious Prinsengracht and Keizersgracht canals.

The Main Bar & Lounge at Andaz
The Main Bar & Lounge at Andaz

Housed in a former public library, Andaz Amsterdam Prinsengracht provides locally inspired luxury on Amsterdam's canals. It's also one of the closest design hotels to Club Church, the city's best gay club.

In terms of amenities, the hotel offers a spa and fitness center, including a double shower to share with your partner along with the sauna. If you have an early arrival, the front desk will provide spa access to enjoy while waiting for your room. It's the perfect antidote for jetlag!

In addition to the spa and connected fitness center, you'll be treated to a welcome drink in the lobby, plenty of space to relax in the bar and lounge, and complimentary local gin-based cocktails at happy hour in the restaurant.

Stylish Modern Rooms
Stylish Modern Rooms


With 122 rooms and suites offering atrium or garden views, you can rest assured no detail has been spared in this creative lifestyle hotel by gay-friendly Hyatt. Every room offers playful decor, local artwork, modern bathrooms, plenty of storage, and included mini bars. That's right, you can take anything and everything from the mini bar and even request for items to be replaced during your stay. We are huge fans of this concept!
Dylan Hotel
Dylan Hotel

In contrast to the sleek and modern vibes at Andaz, we love the warm and inviting traditional luxury at The Dylan. After finding social media posts of stunning gay weddings held in their events space, we knew we had to come see this hidden gem for ourselves. In every interaction with their guest relations team, we felt the hotel's commitment to the LGBTQ community.

On arrival, you can't help but notice the hotel's row of signature bikes and impressive floral arrangements both inside and out. Warm fires burn in the main lobby and cocktails await in the open all day Bar Brasserie OCCO.

With a variety of 41 unique rooms and suites, featuring showers or bathtubs, all with bluetooth B&O sound systems and Aesop products, this eco-certified property and member of the Small Luxury Hotels of the World provides every imaginable comfort for the discerning traveler.
🌟 Pro tip - For a true local's experience, hop on one of the hotel's complimentary Roetz-bikes to explore the city.

Pulitzer Hotel
Pulitzer Hotel

Spread across 25 Golden Age canal houses, Pulitzer Amsterdam is practically its own neighborhood and is consistently rated one of the best hotels in the city. It also has one of the best hotel bars and gardens where you can enjoy a cocktail or glass of wine.

With a massive 225 rooms and suites, guests are spoiled for choice with so many options from singles, classic doubles, and suites to suit every taste imaginable.
Huygens Place
Huygens Place

Located in the Museum District near gay popular Vondelpark, Huygens Place is our mid-range, yet still 4-star, favorite design hotel in Amsterdam. While rooms are on the small side, they are stylish, super clean, and rates start at just a fraction compared to our stays at some of the previously mentioned canal hotels. Rooms include ensuite modern bathrooms, desk, mini-fridge with complimentary bottled waters and chocolates, and even AC. In addition to providing exceptional value in an otherwise expensive city, the front desk team are known for their friendliness, the cherry on top of your stay here.
Canal Boat Tours
Canal Boat Tours

Things to do - If it's your first time to Amsterdam, it's a must to tour the Anne Frank House, visit the Homomonument as we've mentioned, enjoy Dutch and European masters at the Rijksmuseum, take a boat cruise along the famous canals, and feel the energy of the Red Light District at night.

We also recommend eating and drinking your way through the city's winding streets. Amsterdam is known for its delicious pancakes, french fries, and cheeses to name a few. If you're a foodie, we recommend Eating Amsterdam: Jordaan Food Tour. On this small group tour of the city's hottest neighborhood, you'll enjoy 7 tastings in 6 amazing eateries, all with a knowledgeable English-speaking guide.
Rijksmuseum
Rijksmuseum

For the most visited museum in Amsterdam, don't miss the uber popular Rijksmuseum. Discover more than 800 years of Dutch history through the great masters like Rembrandt, Vermeer and Van Gogh. To avoid the massive queues, join a skip-the-line guided tour to save time and admire timeless masterpieces with an expert curator.
Canal Boat Cruise
Canal Boat Cruise

No trip to Amsterdam is complete without a cruise along her famous canals. Called the "Venice of the North," the three main canals were hand dug during the Dutch Golden Age in the 1700's. Today, from the comfort of your electric boat, glass of wine in hand, you can glide past over 1500 monumental buildings. It's the perfect way to see much of the city. We recommend reserving ahead of your trip with one of the smaller operators for the best experience. Book this canal cruise with a maximum of 12 people, including Dutch snacks like stroopwafels and open bar, for a more personalized tour.
Red Light District
Red Light District

Explore the cobbled lanes of the fascinating Red Light District to see red-lit windows, sex shops, and erotic theaters. To learn more about the colorful history of the area as well as Amsterdam's coffee shop culture, take a walking tour with a local guide. You won't regret this unique, engaging, and insightful experience.
Troost Brewery
Troost Brewery

Where to eat and drink – From casual cafes to upscale dining, Amsterdam’s culinary scene is as diverse as its population. Here are some gay-friendly restaurants to check out:

Dutch Pancakes
Dutch Pancakes

We both have a sweet tooth and adore the fact there's a pancake restaurant scene in the Dutch capital. While many tourists flock to Pancake Bakery, Amsterdam's oldest pancake restaurant, we also love the quirky Upstairs Pancakes with just a handful of tables. It's also known as the smallest pancake restaurant in Europe, so reservations are strongly recommended.

Fabel Friet
Fabel Friet

If you're looking for an afternoon snack Dutch-style, we have you covered. With a strong 4.8 rating on Google and close proximity to The Dylan, Andaz and Pulitzer Hotels, we're obsessed with the fries at Fabel Friet. They're locally harvested, freshly cut, and double baked to ensure the best quality.

Pastries at Bakery Saint-Jean
Pastries at Bakery Saint-Jean

Perhaps the hottest bakery in Amsterdam, Bakery Saint-Jean exploded onto the scene with its mind-blowing pistachio cruffin. Come at opening to avoid the queues and try one for yourself before they run out!

New Dutch Eten & Drinken
New Dutch Eten & Drinken

Our favorite gay-friendly breakfast, brunch and lunch spot is New Dutch. With indoor and outdoor seating, super friendly staff, and excellent food, you might just order a second cup of coffee for the people watching alone on a sunny day.

Il Vicolo Restaurant
Il Vicolo Restaurant

For that iconic summer Aperol spritz, combined with delicious salads and homemade pastas, Italian restaurant Il Vicolo offers a casual dining experience. It's the perfect place if you need something hearty before painting the town red.

Prik Bar Amsterdam
Prik Bar Amsterdam

Where to find gay nightlife – From trendy gay bars serving up classic cocktails to naked cruise clubs and dance parties, Amsterdam's legendary LGBTQ+ nightlife caters to every flavor (and fetish!) of queer culture. For the best gay bars and clubs in Amsterdam, read our full review here.

Reguliersdwarsstraat Heineken Takeover
Reguliersdwarsstraat Heineken Takeover


When to go
- Consider your priorities when picking your dates for an Amsterdam adventure! Spring (April-May) offers blooms and comfort, while summer (June-August) bursts with Pride and long days, but brings crowds. Fall (September-October) provides pleasant weather and fewer crowds, perfect for strolling the scenic canals.

For the best gay events, summer brings the queer Tropikali Festival in June and Amsterdam Pride in late July/early August. The famous Canal Pride Parade occurs the final Saturday of Pride Week.

Amsterdam Airport Schiphol (airport code: AMS)
Amsterdam Airport Schiphol (airport code: AMS)

How to get here – Fly into Amsterdam's Schiphol Airport (airport code: AMS), a major international hub. Trains whiz you to Amsterdam Centraal Station from the airport and major European cities.

Schiphol Railway Station
Schiphol Railway Station

🌟 Pro tip - You can pay for all public transit including trams and trains by phone. You don’t need to wait inline to buy a paper ticket—just be sure to tap your phone on the way out to avoid the maximum charge as many fares are distance based.

Travel Resources


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